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Penis Size Survey Part 4
April 10, 2009
Emma B.L.:
I don't have sex, but I do fondle penis most usually during make-out sessions. It's not a requirement, or even a determining factor in the male's ability to satisfy, but I do prefer males with large penises simply because it assures me of their candidness of the subject of their body. In my yet-lacking experience, I find that they are less ashamed and are obviously prouder of their stuff and that's extremely attractive.
April 9, 2009
Tr:
Hi, I'm curious. It's about my penis. It's 6 inches and I was wondering would it please a woman and give her an orgasm. Also, any tips how to make my penis bigger?? Please reply. Thanks.
April 8, 2009
Mike G.:
Hey, I am 17 and have no sperm yet. Is that normal? Anyways, how do you check if you have sperm or not? Thanks. P.S. my penis is 5.3".
April 8, 2009
James Appel:
I'm 16 and my penis is 3 inches long, 5 inches long when erected. Do I dare ask if that's small for my age, I'm just wondering if it will grow longer and if you know any natural methods to make it bigger.
April 8, 2009
Ken:
In my college days I participated in several gang bangs. On the three women we asked which penis was larger, usually used a dude with 5 inches and one with 9 inches. None of the three could really tell which one was the biggest on penetration. It is my understanding that a woman can only feel the first 3 inches. Once inside best we could tell the ladies would like "that full feeling" with the big ones. I carry 6 1/2 with average girth. I was always a big fan of the ladies because, when I go off, I gush 10 hard pumps. On a couple of occasions I have collected the wads and it is over 4 fl.oz. If I pull out I can fire over the gal's head, got great distance. I always bring a big towel for both parties.
April 7, 2009
User:
Hey, I'm 15. My dick is about 6" erect, but that is'nt the problem for me. It's very skinny, about 2.8 inches around. Is that normal and does thickness matter more than length? What do girls think?
April 6, 2009
decIarewar:
Aight, My girl and I have been together for about a year now and we have done everything from all that oral sex stuff and the rest. But now we aggree that we are ready for the real thing. I am 14 Years old and my cock is 5.5 when hard....I have a size 11 shoe. Now my first questions is: Is that too small? And my Second Question is How long does a virgin last during sex compared to a non-virgin?
April 5, 2009
Jackie B:
YES!!! Penis size totally matters. Skill is involved as well, but if he has a little dick, it's just not as good. Little penis are ugly and not at all a turn on. Not that I like them huge, but a bit over average is perfect.
April 4, 2009
Veedubkid:
I'm 6'2", 180lbs, 9.5", still a virgin and wondering if this is a good size and would a size like this hurt a female???
April 3, 2009
Male Chap:
I've read many of your "does size count" replies and sit here amazed, with a big smile. People seem confused by the questions: Does size count? And Is size important?
There is a tendency for articles and "authorities" to give assurance to men that there is an average size for human penises and they are "o.k" if they fall within it. And they've gone as far as to designate smaller average size statistics for some racial groups, and to assure them as well that they, too, are just as functional and o.k.
But frankly, if he truth be told, we are not questioning whether or not tiny penises and huge penis are functional. That is, if they serve the same biological purpose. It is common knowledge that copulation, orgasm, parenthood and, yes, partner satisfaction occurs on some regardless of size. And it seems that the penis of average length is more likely to provide a sense of presence than the smaller ones. An issue here is culture and social significance. In America, at least, bigger is usually better in this case. Men and woman feel proud if they have a "big penis" between them. Manly men are thought of as both massive, capable and virile. A big penis with big, hanging balls and a voluminous ejaculations is seen as very desirable, even if not mentioned.
All of this, however has nothing to do with whether or not it is better to have a huge, i.e., very thick and long, penis hanging between your legs. Let's face it: Men and women spend a great deal of time focusing on that one simple image. The Penis. Most of us do NOT spend time envisioning a small one. It is just human nature. We seek the exceptional, and that includes penises. Bluntly, there IS a difference in the our social communication between a wee wee/pee pee and a "big ole penis / schlong".
At the very least, size boosts the esteem of a man. If he can bring a huge penis, versus a small one, to the bed, he is viewed as a hunk. It will certainly give the conversation yet another dimension. So when you hear all of the reasons presented to make your small to average penis seem most acceptable, feel free to believe it because, in fact, it is o.k to have a lesser yet functioning penis. It IS, however, better to bring more probing information to the table and to the bed. If she is physically fit and average in the size of her vaginal attributes, why wouldn't a woman want a very thick penis to fall inside of her. I mean, really, even if she feels she doesn't need such a big one, she can still accommodate the girth of a baby's head and shoulders.
On a more personal note, even men with above average sized penises can feel mediocre. I feel the need to be bigger, thicker every time I pull mine out for any reason. Am I huge? No. My penis is 8 and 1/2 inches long, measured from base along the top. It is almost 6 inches in circumference. As I say, I'm "above-average". I don't, however, care about what is considered average. I do appreciate the size that I am, and find comfort in the fact that most penises are small by comparison. Still, I know it's true that I would be happier if I could pull out a stiff and thick ten plus inches, even if no woman that I meant would want to take it.
The painful truth.
April 1, 2009
Brian W:
I'm a 25 year old York City fireman and I have a problem. My penis is too big! I know it may be hard to beleive, but at 13.5 inches long and 4 inches across, I can't have normal sex. It just won't fit in any women I've slept with. Even oral sex is hard. Are there any penile reduction methods?
April 1, 2009
Suprman:
Hi, I just turned 14 and my penis is about 5 inches erect. I haven't gone through puberty but I think I started. I have some pubic hair but not the hair on my legs that men have. Will my penis grow more?
March 31, 2009
Iaff:
I have read severtal of the responses on this site. Take it from an experienced person, any woman that it telling you that size does not matter, is merely trying not to hurt your feelings. It may not be the most important thing, but it does matter somewhat. Oh, by the way, 8'0 long 5'0 around.
March 31, 2009
Chrissy123:
I'm an 18 yearr old female. I think size has somewhat 2 do with enjoying a good fuck. But guys with smaller penises, probaly receive better oral sex from a female. Thats the disadvantage of having a big dick and wanting oral sex...us females gag. The smaller penises are a breeze. Although, i myself like and enjoy bigger dicks. If you have a small dick, i will give you a tip...from experiance...Make the girl horny by giving her oral sex...intill she cannot controll herself/body they even a small dick can be VERY VERY satisfying. thats the honest truth. Also, try being/acting like a gentleman....that can usually win a girls heart.
March 31, 2009
Dan:
Some of these comments I have read are so ridiculous. This is the only one I know of where scientists measured the sizes. All the other surveys the men measure themselves.
March 31, 2009
Emanuel:
Speaking from a woman's point of view...sorry guys... size does matter. There is a wide range of ok sizes though. It doesn't have to be huge but at least average (5"). There is nothing wrong with big but there is such a thing as too big. My husband has a 9" penis (5" around) and I think anything bigger would be too big (at least for me). In rebuttal to the comment below... If this makes me a bad girl, so be it. Better to be bad (at least in the bedroom) than frigid and fake!
March 30, 2009
David S:
My penis is 5 and 1/2 inches long and 5 inches in girth. I have never had any complaints as far as sex comes, but many of my partners have said they wished it was bigger for hand jobs and giving head. What do any of the ladies think? Is my penis size fine for you?
March 30, 2009
BryanDaMan:
My dick is like 4" erect and I'm 11. Is that normal?
March 30, 2009
Truth8:
Hey, I am writing this to hopefully clear up some things for guys as well as girls.You guys need to stop lying. First of all I would like to say that if your penis is 10" or longer like some of you guys say, I don't believe that you can have an erection because not enough blood will flow. I am a college student and I have studied sex therapy, and the "penis issue" for about four years intensively now. Here is the truth: First, it only takes about two inches to stimulate a woman's clitoris. Second, guys stop lying about knowing where a g-spot is. NO ONE KNOW WHERE THIS IS! Not even a woman knows where it it. This spot has been named so because women sometimes experience such intense feelings that are breathtaking and indescribable. They are in different places.
Now the part that everyone loves to hear: The length of your erect penis is ultimately irrelevant in regards to any matter. Those people who care are self-conscious and basically "sexually hyperactive". The average penis length is approximately 5.3 inches according to overall medical studies. This is close to the 50% percentile. A lot of you guys said some pretty acurrate stuff. I am very impressed. It is true that the real reason females care about penis size is for observational reasons. If you expose your penis to a female and it is say 8 inches long, then she will probably be in a very exhilirated state. I am going to put it in worldy terms: If your dick is real long and thick, a girl will love to look at it. If your dick is small and thin, then you better concentrate on sex and don't worry about putting on a little show for her. Guys, most of you have an average or larger than average penis size. Personally, I don't believe that it is a big deal. I am a very emotional and sensual (for those of you who think that sensual means sexual, you are wrong!) guy. I believe that a woman has an intense desire to be held and caressed and given an enormous amount of foreplay, not "pumping your dick in her as hard as you can", because face it, that is not going to satisfy a woman. Lastly, I would like to say that most women have never experienced an orgasm. This is due to the fact that that they are for the most part focused on the personality, attitude, and character of a guy. Sex begins and ends in the mind. For women sex is primarily psychological and expresses itself with physical responses. For men, sex is primarily phsyical with psychological colorations. So guys try to clear your mind and understand the truth. I hope I have helped some of you understand these things better. I am not making any of this up. Go to the library and research it, or ask a qualified doctor.
My personal belief: Wait until marriage, because it will be more emotionally satisfying. You will feel it in your mind long after you feel it in your body. When two people have premarital sex, they will forever be focused on pleasing each other sexually. It will be very hard to focus on building a relationship built in the love of God and basic human concepts such as trust and comfortableness. Peace be unto all of you.
March 30, 2009
Tim T Jr:
Hey, I'm 5'10, 175pds and I have a 9.9" dick. I think that size dose matter. I am 15. Think of how big it can be!
March 30, 2009
TroEdge:
I have seen a lot of penises and responded to a few ads of guys claiming to have 8", 9" or more. In my experience I have found that if you subtract 2 from that number it is usually more accurate. In the general public most of the guys I encounter are 4"-5" in length if measured properly. The ones that lie add 1 or 2 to their true measurements, or measure from the base of the testicles to the tip of the glans. The true way to measure is to place a ruler at the TOP of the penis (take care to not push the ruler in your stomach) where you can see your penis while looking down and measure to the tip of the glans (head). I will not give my measurement because most won't believe it, as I don't believe most of the measurements I've read here.
March 28, 2009
Florey:
Hey, 2 inches at 90 miles an hour won't knock the bottom out but it will sure terrorize the sides.
March 27, 2009
Cman:
I think that it's funny how all of these kids who are practically ten years old write in and say: "my cock is ten inches long...when soft!" We all know this is bullshit, so unless you can send me pictures as proof, grow up. I don't need to exaggerate about my size, because I'm 6.5" x 5" erect, and proud of it. It would be nice to be a little bit longer for looks, but who really cares about my dick other than me?
March 26, 2009
Richard Chang:
Hi! My name is Richard Chang. I am 13 years old and have a hairy and slimy penis. I am 5 feet 10 inches, weighing 120 pounds. My penis is 1.5 inches normal and 5.5 inches when erect. When erect, it's circumference is 4 inches. I am a circumcised male. I love my penis and hope that it becomes much bigger. It's okay, even if it doesn't. My penis is pretty dark and hairy. Any other boys or girls can send me an email, and I will send them some pics of my dick and body and testes.
March 26, 2009
Conrad:
I'm 16 and will be 17 in June. I'm about 5 inches erect. Let's see, am I done growing?
March 26, 2009
Andrew D:
I never talked about penis size with my male friends, growing up, because it seemed like something that shouldn't matter. NOTICE I SAY SEEMED. I didn't finally show a "length" interest in my cock until I turned 21 (if you really are interested you can go to a doctor and ask him to measure you up, better than the way you'll feel after an internet survey).
I went to a doctor, and he started to get me hard, sorta. he showed me how a guy should jerk it, and told me that i was "a lucky man" to have a big dick. I've seen a lot of dick in my day...from locker rooms, from partying with friends, from a few gay encounters, or from porno's and the internet, from my personal experience. If you never had a preoccupation with size to begin with, the odds are you've got a big dick. AND IF YOU HAVE HAD A PREOCCUPATION WITH SIZE, YOU're GAY!!!! Not that you're bad for being gay, but To me, the only people that "bitch" really do consider themselves sexually inadequate because of what they've heard, or perhaps their own preconceived notions, but who gives a shit? Because if somebody's really interested in whether or not your dick is larger, or smaller than average he/she's not trying to measure up, he/she's trying to get down your pants. it's as simple as that. So, choose what you like. As Father Ewan would say, find your "fancy".
My dick is nearly 7 inches, and about 4.75 inches around... it's nice and I can "drive it all the way home," with girls. Continuing to be honest, the only time "I" feel inadequate is when it's me, or some other guy wondering who's cock is bigger than the other (men, you should be able to understand these episodes). Seriously I've found that the only reason penis size didn't matter to me, growing up, is because I managed to stay a VIRGIN all throughout high school. I went to L.A. and got head from a kinky chick who poses for Swank mag now (no joke), when I was 15, but as far as the rest of sex is concerned, (heheh) I didn't have it until I was out of high school...
The best advice I can give to anybody about the issue is to stay VIRGINS as long as you can. Be one of the few who doesn't "bullshit" with the other guys about the size of your cock. And trust me, if you don't "bullshit" about these issues, and instead create for yourself an "honest" picture of the way sex should be (gay, or straight), I believe your dick/penis/willy/johnson will grow to fit the love that you share with whomever it may be. If you're single, let it grow to fit the size of your own ego, because you know that you're da bomb. Notice, I say single.
AND WHEN I SAY SINGLE I MEAN NOT IN ANY boyfriend/girlfriend type relationships, INCLUDING SEXUAL ONES, such as a one-nighter. Oh yeah, and maybe some advice on how to stay abstinent, masturbate...or, jerk off with a friend. Most of you would be surprised how big your dick is in comparison to other guys... and hell, if the guy's your friend, there's no reason to be ashamed.
A good indicator on whether or not you've got a "large" cock and balls (can "drive it home" in the bedroom)...well, first off somebody could tell you, or:
1. you need to come up with a method to shake out every last drop of pee after pissing,
2. your nuts are hurting because you're either sitting on one of em, or they're squawshed in between your thighs,
3. somebody during oral sex is choking on your cock (the back of the mouth),
4. somebody achieved an orgasm while you were solely fucking them,
5. you can look at yourself in the mirror and like what you see,
6. if it takes you a long time to get it up (you should check it out by yourself sometime, before you masturbate... see how long it takes to really get it up... semi-hard doesn't count... if it takes you awhile to achieve rock hard potential, you've got a big dick).
But listen, if you don't have a big dick, it's not you who's got the problem, it's your friends. From hanging out with a bunch of "big dicks" my whole life i can understand why some guy's choke up, and can't "hang," when other guys talk about nothing other than their dick sizes because in all actuality they are dumber than dumb individuals.
I've got a "big" dick, and a nice personality. I have male friends of all sizes, and trust me, we are all just as confused sexually as the rest of each other. (I had a friend once who used to...hehehe, nevermind), but my point is this... It's only a big deal when some guy hears from some guy who heard from some other guy who heard from Bob's brother Joe Blow that some guy, Tito was caught cocksucking somebody and yadda yadda yadda.... It's a gay thing, it really is. Homosexual guys use this talk to "out" other homosexuals. Think about it. All this talk about dicks, do you think heterosexual guys like to use it? No. Yeah, and to end this, girls don't care... seriously, they'll like somebody sexually as long as you please them....If a guy starts commenting about his cock, just remember a quote from the Bible, "it's not what goes into a man that defiles him, but that which proceeds out of his mouth,"
Many would even want to tell you that the only reason they're "talking" about having this humongous dick is because, what guys WE WANT TO KNOW ABOUT IT, RIGHT? but no hehehe I never wanted to know how big my friends dicks were.... after awhile I just gave up because it was such a big deal to all of them.... Be a loving male friend, find a loving male friend, look for a loving male friend, dance with a loving male friend, you might just surprise yourself with how big a man you can be.
March 23, 2009
Rn33:
Hi, I have a 7.5 inch 9.7 inch when erect and proud of it. Some people say that the size of a man's cock is the size of his wealth. Well I'll have to say "Here-Here" for that.
March 24, 2009
David (Italy):
I've just read a few pages on your site. Yes, sizes have always been the "torments" for everyone. But when I was younger - a teenager or even older - I thought too much for a testicle's retention. I was operated for when I was 12. Too late for this kind of operation, in fact the testicle suffered. I remember I have had these worries for long time, and when doctors kept saying I had no problems (one testicle can do for the other, that had suffered) and especially that I had a good penis to be proud of. I didn't care of that. Worries passed, during my 22-25. Now I am 34, I don't really know what is the right size. Anyway, my penis is (erect) 17 cm long (maybe 6.69) and its circumference 15cm (maybe 5,90). What shall I say, am I a regular size?
March 23, 2009
Jeff F:
My penis measures 5.5" long and 5" in circumference when hard. Soft, about 3" long. I don't think size matters that much to most women, but some definitely want bigger. And, some out there do like average to smaller. One thing about my penis is that it is a little thicker, wider than average. Width is vastly underestimated in the whole size debate. Plus, it helps to know how it use it effectively, and in unison with your toungue.
March 22, 2009
Juancho:
It's the whole package actually, what you lack in size aspect can be compensated.
March 22, 2009
Nate:
Three things: If a girl only likes huge cocks (i.e. above 7.5 inches), chances are she's a slutty whore who will probably later find that it feels impossible for her to ever actually love anyone.
All of you dudes under 16: Quit freaking out about your dick size. It doesn't reach its full size until you're completely finished with puberty. Until then, don't worry yourself much about it. Average size is from 5-7 inches erect. And the size of your flaccid penis has absolutely no bearing upon how big it'll be when you've got a boner.
I suggest everyone scroll down to a comment made by someone named Linda. I found it very insightful and I agree with it. Those bastards!
Find a girl that likes you, not dicks.
My cock is a little mover 5 inches in girth, and anywhere from 6 to 7 inches long. Exactly 1.75 inches wide. I'm 18.
March 17, 2009
Babe200947:
Hi ! I am a 22 year old female virgin (no kidding) and I was very interested in this page because I am wondering what my first time would be like. My boyfriend is a full 9 1/2 inches (measured the right way), erect, and I am only 5 feet two inches. In my case I really do think size matters! My wedding and honeymoon have already been planned, and honestly I would prefer if he was half that size.
March 16, 2009
MeThomas:
It does matter. I am a 34 year-old wife and mother of three. My current husband is 49 and is medium-to-small. Not very satisfying. My first husband, however, is medium-to-large. I sure miss that!
March 16, 2009
I1KoRn11:
I think it's how deep you fish cuz girls love that feeling of a long penis rubbing the sides of their entire vagina. People with small penises are self-conscious and say it's not the size of the penis but you know what it really is the size that matters.
March 16, 2009
HornBerg:
I am 6'0 155lbs and 19 years old. I have roughly a 6 inch penis and 5 around. I am constantly measuring with a ruler and looking at pictures and studies on internet. From what I have read and heard - the average penis size is 6 inches and if you have a dick between 5 and 8 inches - you are fine - unless you fuck a nympho slut who only wants a cock 7 inches or bigger.
March 15, 2009
John:
My dick is so long that I have to wear it around my waist. When I want to have sex with a girl it sometimes gets embarrassing because she gets bored waiting for me to untie my dick from my waist. I would be grateful if anyone with the same problem could email me back.
March 14, 2009
Donna G:
I think it matters to some girls, but more like the average size I think because why else would smaller guys get some. It's only logical. Mine is 7.25" long and I'm 17 do you think it will grow bigger?
P.S. Girls who only like big guys are superficial and need to try out a average guy or smaller if they want a guy who will really give them the time of their lives.
March 14, 2009
KyleMurp:
It is how deep you fish.
March 14, 2009
Sarah H:
It is definately how deep you fish. A girl likes a little pain with her pleasure from time to time, and let's face it, we need to have a man with some length!!
March 14, 2009
Unknown:
I was born with an extremely small penis. So much so the ultrasound thought I was female. This really bothers me because my friend's are all large. I know I can never satisfy a woman, ever. I can relate to what Mike D was saying in his comments. I too have been a victim of small penis syndrome. I too have been set aside for a guy with a larger penis. I can't even tell a girl to rub my testicles because they're almost non existant. I feel what you feel, Mike D, and I sympathise with you. We, with small penises must overcome this biggetry now. I say we make a stand, well poor choice of words, but speak for our rights. Thank you all for listening.
March 14, 2009
:
I'm 14. My penis gets to about 6 inches erect. How much will it grow to when I'm older. Also do you have any methods to help me cum while masturbating its real important.
March 13, 2009
Kelly:
I am 24 years old and have been with over 20 men. All in all, to me, size really doesn't matter. If a man has a small dick, I prefer for him to be good with his mouth. On the same token, if a man is large, then I prefer for him to be good with his mouth!
In reference to penis size, I DON'T WANT a man who is longer than 7.25 in. long. Why? Doggy style or other deeper-penetration positions are too painful to enjoy for me. I prefer a man who is thick around. Always.
March 13, 2009
Nancy:
I was surfing around and found this page. I'd like to comment on my husband's cock. We have measured it and found that flaccid he is 6 1/2" X 5 3/4" in girth; erect he is 9 1/2" X 7" --- in the latter case, his dickhead is large.
Contrary to the commonly held view, a woman's cunt can take this easily --- after all, babies come out of that hole! My cunt and asshole both can take hime to the hilt; I cannot take all of him orally, however.
March 13, 2009
USNMH:
I am 21 years old, 5'9" tall. My penis is 3 inches soft, and 5.5-6.0 inches when erect. I am quite happy with my size, even if it isn't that big.
Emma B.L.:
I don't have sex, but I do fondle penis most usually during make-out sessions. It's not a requirement, or even a determining factor in the male's ability to satisfy, but I do prefer males with large penises simply because it assures me of their candidness of the subject of their body. In my yet-lacking experience, I find that they are less ashamed and are obviously prouder of their stuff and that's extremely attractive.
April 9, 2009
Tr:
Hi, I'm curious. It's about my penis. It's 6 inches and I was wondering would it please a woman and give her an orgasm. Also, any tips how to make my penis bigger?? Please reply. Thanks.
April 8, 2009
Mike G.:
Hey, I am 17 and have no sperm yet. Is that normal? Anyways, how do you check if you have sperm or not? Thanks. P.S. my penis is 5.3".
April 8, 2009
James Appel:
I'm 16 and my penis is 3 inches long, 5 inches long when erected. Do I dare ask if that's small for my age, I'm just wondering if it will grow longer and if you know any natural methods to make it bigger.
April 8, 2009
Ken:
In my college days I participated in several gang bangs. On the three women we asked which penis was larger, usually used a dude with 5 inches and one with 9 inches. None of the three could really tell which one was the biggest on penetration. It is my understanding that a woman can only feel the first 3 inches. Once inside best we could tell the ladies would like "that full feeling" with the big ones. I carry 6 1/2 with average girth. I was always a big fan of the ladies because, when I go off, I gush 10 hard pumps. On a couple of occasions I have collected the wads and it is over 4 fl.oz. If I pull out I can fire over the gal's head, got great distance. I always bring a big towel for both parties.
April 7, 2009
User:
Hey, I'm 15. My dick is about 6" erect, but that is'nt the problem for me. It's very skinny, about 2.8 inches around. Is that normal and does thickness matter more than length? What do girls think?
April 6, 2009
decIarewar:
Aight, My girl and I have been together for about a year now and we have done everything from all that oral sex stuff and the rest. But now we aggree that we are ready for the real thing. I am 14 Years old and my cock is 5.5 when hard....I have a size 11 shoe. Now my first questions is: Is that too small? And my Second Question is How long does a virgin last during sex compared to a non-virgin?
April 5, 2009
Jackie B:
YES!!! Penis size totally matters. Skill is involved as well, but if he has a little dick, it's just not as good. Little penis are ugly and not at all a turn on. Not that I like them huge, but a bit over average is perfect.
April 4, 2009
Veedubkid:
I'm 6'2", 180lbs, 9.5", still a virgin and wondering if this is a good size and would a size like this hurt a female???
April 3, 2009
Male Chap:
I've read many of your "does size count" replies and sit here amazed, with a big smile. People seem confused by the questions: Does size count? And Is size important?
There is a tendency for articles and "authorities" to give assurance to men that there is an average size for human penises and they are "o.k" if they fall within it. And they've gone as far as to designate smaller average size statistics for some racial groups, and to assure them as well that they, too, are just as functional and o.k.
But frankly, if he truth be told, we are not questioning whether or not tiny penises and huge penis are functional. That is, if they serve the same biological purpose. It is common knowledge that copulation, orgasm, parenthood and, yes, partner satisfaction occurs on some regardless of size. And it seems that the penis of average length is more likely to provide a sense of presence than the smaller ones. An issue here is culture and social significance. In America, at least, bigger is usually better in this case. Men and woman feel proud if they have a "big penis" between them. Manly men are thought of as both massive, capable and virile. A big penis with big, hanging balls and a voluminous ejaculations is seen as very desirable, even if not mentioned.
All of this, however has nothing to do with whether or not it is better to have a huge, i.e., very thick and long, penis hanging between your legs. Let's face it: Men and women spend a great deal of time focusing on that one simple image. The Penis. Most of us do NOT spend time envisioning a small one. It is just human nature. We seek the exceptional, and that includes penises. Bluntly, there IS a difference in the our social communication between a wee wee/pee pee and a "big ole penis / schlong".
At the very least, size boosts the esteem of a man. If he can bring a huge penis, versus a small one, to the bed, he is viewed as a hunk. It will certainly give the conversation yet another dimension. So when you hear all of the reasons presented to make your small to average penis seem most acceptable, feel free to believe it because, in fact, it is o.k to have a lesser yet functioning penis. It IS, however, better to bring more probing information to the table and to the bed. If she is physically fit and average in the size of her vaginal attributes, why wouldn't a woman want a very thick penis to fall inside of her. I mean, really, even if she feels she doesn't need such a big one, she can still accommodate the girth of a baby's head and shoulders.
On a more personal note, even men with above average sized penises can feel mediocre. I feel the need to be bigger, thicker every time I pull mine out for any reason. Am I huge? No. My penis is 8 and 1/2 inches long, measured from base along the top. It is almost 6 inches in circumference. As I say, I'm "above-average". I don't, however, care about what is considered average. I do appreciate the size that I am, and find comfort in the fact that most penises are small by comparison. Still, I know it's true that I would be happier if I could pull out a stiff and thick ten plus inches, even if no woman that I meant would want to take it.
The painful truth.
April 1, 2009
Brian W:
I'm a 25 year old York City fireman and I have a problem. My penis is too big! I know it may be hard to beleive, but at 13.5 inches long and 4 inches across, I can't have normal sex. It just won't fit in any women I've slept with. Even oral sex is hard. Are there any penile reduction methods?
April 1, 2009
Suprman:
Hi, I just turned 14 and my penis is about 5 inches erect. I haven't gone through puberty but I think I started. I have some pubic hair but not the hair on my legs that men have. Will my penis grow more?
March 31, 2009
Iaff:
I have read severtal of the responses on this site. Take it from an experienced person, any woman that it telling you that size does not matter, is merely trying not to hurt your feelings. It may not be the most important thing, but it does matter somewhat. Oh, by the way, 8'0 long 5'0 around.
March 31, 2009
Chrissy123:
I'm an 18 yearr old female. I think size has somewhat 2 do with enjoying a good fuck. But guys with smaller penises, probaly receive better oral sex from a female. Thats the disadvantage of having a big dick and wanting oral sex...us females gag. The smaller penises are a breeze. Although, i myself like and enjoy bigger dicks. If you have a small dick, i will give you a tip...from experiance...Make the girl horny by giving her oral sex...intill she cannot controll herself/body they even a small dick can be VERY VERY satisfying. thats the honest truth. Also, try being/acting like a gentleman....that can usually win a girls heart.
March 31, 2009
Dan:
Some of these comments I have read are so ridiculous. This is the only one I know of where scientists measured the sizes. All the other surveys the men measure themselves.
March 31, 2009
Emanuel:
Speaking from a woman's point of view...sorry guys... size does matter. There is a wide range of ok sizes though. It doesn't have to be huge but at least average (5"). There is nothing wrong with big but there is such a thing as too big. My husband has a 9" penis (5" around) and I think anything bigger would be too big (at least for me). In rebuttal to the comment below... If this makes me a bad girl, so be it. Better to be bad (at least in the bedroom) than frigid and fake!
March 30, 2009
David S:
My penis is 5 and 1/2 inches long and 5 inches in girth. I have never had any complaints as far as sex comes, but many of my partners have said they wished it was bigger for hand jobs and giving head. What do any of the ladies think? Is my penis size fine for you?
March 30, 2009
BryanDaMan:
My dick is like 4" erect and I'm 11. Is that normal?
March 30, 2009
Truth8:
Hey, I am writing this to hopefully clear up some things for guys as well as girls.You guys need to stop lying. First of all I would like to say that if your penis is 10" or longer like some of you guys say, I don't believe that you can have an erection because not enough blood will flow. I am a college student and I have studied sex therapy, and the "penis issue" for about four years intensively now. Here is the truth: First, it only takes about two inches to stimulate a woman's clitoris. Second, guys stop lying about knowing where a g-spot is. NO ONE KNOW WHERE THIS IS! Not even a woman knows where it it. This spot has been named so because women sometimes experience such intense feelings that are breathtaking and indescribable. They are in different places.
Now the part that everyone loves to hear: The length of your erect penis is ultimately irrelevant in regards to any matter. Those people who care are self-conscious and basically "sexually hyperactive". The average penis length is approximately 5.3 inches according to overall medical studies. This is close to the 50% percentile. A lot of you guys said some pretty acurrate stuff. I am very impressed. It is true that the real reason females care about penis size is for observational reasons. If you expose your penis to a female and it is say 8 inches long, then she will probably be in a very exhilirated state. I am going to put it in worldy terms: If your dick is real long and thick, a girl will love to look at it. If your dick is small and thin, then you better concentrate on sex and don't worry about putting on a little show for her. Guys, most of you have an average or larger than average penis size. Personally, I don't believe that it is a big deal. I am a very emotional and sensual (for those of you who think that sensual means sexual, you are wrong!) guy. I believe that a woman has an intense desire to be held and caressed and given an enormous amount of foreplay, not "pumping your dick in her as hard as you can", because face it, that is not going to satisfy a woman. Lastly, I would like to say that most women have never experienced an orgasm. This is due to the fact that that they are for the most part focused on the personality, attitude, and character of a guy. Sex begins and ends in the mind. For women sex is primarily psychological and expresses itself with physical responses. For men, sex is primarily phsyical with psychological colorations. So guys try to clear your mind and understand the truth. I hope I have helped some of you understand these things better. I am not making any of this up. Go to the library and research it, or ask a qualified doctor.
My personal belief: Wait until marriage, because it will be more emotionally satisfying. You will feel it in your mind long after you feel it in your body. When two people have premarital sex, they will forever be focused on pleasing each other sexually. It will be very hard to focus on building a relationship built in the love of God and basic human concepts such as trust and comfortableness. Peace be unto all of you.
March 30, 2009
Tim T Jr:
Hey, I'm 5'10, 175pds and I have a 9.9" dick. I think that size dose matter. I am 15. Think of how big it can be!
March 30, 2009
TroEdge:
I have seen a lot of penises and responded to a few ads of guys claiming to have 8", 9" or more. In my experience I have found that if you subtract 2 from that number it is usually more accurate. In the general public most of the guys I encounter are 4"-5" in length if measured properly. The ones that lie add 1 or 2 to their true measurements, or measure from the base of the testicles to the tip of the glans. The true way to measure is to place a ruler at the TOP of the penis (take care to not push the ruler in your stomach) where you can see your penis while looking down and measure to the tip of the glans (head). I will not give my measurement because most won't believe it, as I don't believe most of the measurements I've read here.
March 28, 2009
Florey:
Hey, 2 inches at 90 miles an hour won't knock the bottom out but it will sure terrorize the sides.
March 27, 2009
Cman:
I think that it's funny how all of these kids who are practically ten years old write in and say: "my cock is ten inches long...when soft!" We all know this is bullshit, so unless you can send me pictures as proof, grow up. I don't need to exaggerate about my size, because I'm 6.5" x 5" erect, and proud of it. It would be nice to be a little bit longer for looks, but who really cares about my dick other than me?
March 26, 2009
Richard Chang:
Hi! My name is Richard Chang. I am 13 years old and have a hairy and slimy penis. I am 5 feet 10 inches, weighing 120 pounds. My penis is 1.5 inches normal and 5.5 inches when erect. When erect, it's circumference is 4 inches. I am a circumcised male. I love my penis and hope that it becomes much bigger. It's okay, even if it doesn't. My penis is pretty dark and hairy. Any other boys or girls can send me an email, and I will send them some pics of my dick and body and testes.
March 26, 2009
Conrad:
I'm 16 and will be 17 in June. I'm about 5 inches erect. Let's see, am I done growing?
March 26, 2009
Andrew D:
I never talked about penis size with my male friends, growing up, because it seemed like something that shouldn't matter. NOTICE I SAY SEEMED. I didn't finally show a "length" interest in my cock until I turned 21 (if you really are interested you can go to a doctor and ask him to measure you up, better than the way you'll feel after an internet survey).
I went to a doctor, and he started to get me hard, sorta. he showed me how a guy should jerk it, and told me that i was "a lucky man" to have a big dick. I've seen a lot of dick in my day...from locker rooms, from partying with friends, from a few gay encounters, or from porno's and the internet, from my personal experience. If you never had a preoccupation with size to begin with, the odds are you've got a big dick. AND IF YOU HAVE HAD A PREOCCUPATION WITH SIZE, YOU're GAY!!!! Not that you're bad for being gay, but To me, the only people that "bitch" really do consider themselves sexually inadequate because of what they've heard, or perhaps their own preconceived notions, but who gives a shit? Because if somebody's really interested in whether or not your dick is larger, or smaller than average he/she's not trying to measure up, he/she's trying to get down your pants. it's as simple as that. So, choose what you like. As Father Ewan would say, find your "fancy".
My dick is nearly 7 inches, and about 4.75 inches around... it's nice and I can "drive it all the way home," with girls. Continuing to be honest, the only time "I" feel inadequate is when it's me, or some other guy wondering who's cock is bigger than the other (men, you should be able to understand these episodes). Seriously I've found that the only reason penis size didn't matter to me, growing up, is because I managed to stay a VIRGIN all throughout high school. I went to L.A. and got head from a kinky chick who poses for Swank mag now (no joke), when I was 15, but as far as the rest of sex is concerned, (heheh) I didn't have it until I was out of high school...
The best advice I can give to anybody about the issue is to stay VIRGINS as long as you can. Be one of the few who doesn't "bullshit" with the other guys about the size of your cock. And trust me, if you don't "bullshit" about these issues, and instead create for yourself an "honest" picture of the way sex should be (gay, or straight), I believe your dick/penis/willy/johnson will grow to fit the love that you share with whomever it may be. If you're single, let it grow to fit the size of your own ego, because you know that you're da bomb. Notice, I say single.
AND WHEN I SAY SINGLE I MEAN NOT IN ANY boyfriend/girlfriend type relationships, INCLUDING SEXUAL ONES, such as a one-nighter. Oh yeah, and maybe some advice on how to stay abstinent, masturbate...or, jerk off with a friend. Most of you would be surprised how big your dick is in comparison to other guys... and hell, if the guy's your friend, there's no reason to be ashamed.
A good indicator on whether or not you've got a "large" cock and balls (can "drive it home" in the bedroom)...well, first off somebody could tell you, or:
1. you need to come up with a method to shake out every last drop of pee after pissing,
2. your nuts are hurting because you're either sitting on one of em, or they're squawshed in between your thighs,
3. somebody during oral sex is choking on your cock (the back of the mouth),
4. somebody achieved an orgasm while you were solely fucking them,
5. you can look at yourself in the mirror and like what you see,
6. if it takes you a long time to get it up (you should check it out by yourself sometime, before you masturbate... see how long it takes to really get it up... semi-hard doesn't count... if it takes you awhile to achieve rock hard potential, you've got a big dick).
But listen, if you don't have a big dick, it's not you who's got the problem, it's your friends. From hanging out with a bunch of "big dicks" my whole life i can understand why some guy's choke up, and can't "hang," when other guys talk about nothing other than their dick sizes because in all actuality they are dumber than dumb individuals.
I've got a "big" dick, and a nice personality. I have male friends of all sizes, and trust me, we are all just as confused sexually as the rest of each other. (I had a friend once who used to...hehehe, nevermind), but my point is this... It's only a big deal when some guy hears from some guy who heard from some other guy who heard from Bob's brother Joe Blow that some guy, Tito was caught cocksucking somebody and yadda yadda yadda.... It's a gay thing, it really is. Homosexual guys use this talk to "out" other homosexuals. Think about it. All this talk about dicks, do you think heterosexual guys like to use it? No. Yeah, and to end this, girls don't care... seriously, they'll like somebody sexually as long as you please them....If a guy starts commenting about his cock, just remember a quote from the Bible, "it's not what goes into a man that defiles him, but that which proceeds out of his mouth,"
Many would even want to tell you that the only reason they're "talking" about having this humongous dick is because, what guys WE WANT TO KNOW ABOUT IT, RIGHT? but no hehehe I never wanted to know how big my friends dicks were.... after awhile I just gave up because it was such a big deal to all of them.... Be a loving male friend, find a loving male friend, look for a loving male friend, dance with a loving male friend, you might just surprise yourself with how big a man you can be.
March 23, 2009
Rn33:
Hi, I have a 7.5 inch 9.7 inch when erect and proud of it. Some people say that the size of a man's cock is the size of his wealth. Well I'll have to say "Here-Here" for that.
March 24, 2009
David (Italy):
I've just read a few pages on your site. Yes, sizes have always been the "torments" for everyone. But when I was younger - a teenager or even older - I thought too much for a testicle's retention. I was operated for when I was 12. Too late for this kind of operation, in fact the testicle suffered. I remember I have had these worries for long time, and when doctors kept saying I had no problems (one testicle can do for the other, that had suffered) and especially that I had a good penis to be proud of. I didn't care of that. Worries passed, during my 22-25. Now I am 34, I don't really know what is the right size. Anyway, my penis is (erect) 17 cm long (maybe 6.69) and its circumference 15cm (maybe 5,90). What shall I say, am I a regular size?
March 23, 2009
Jeff F:
My penis measures 5.5" long and 5" in circumference when hard. Soft, about 3" long. I don't think size matters that much to most women, but some definitely want bigger. And, some out there do like average to smaller. One thing about my penis is that it is a little thicker, wider than average. Width is vastly underestimated in the whole size debate. Plus, it helps to know how it use it effectively, and in unison with your toungue.
March 22, 2009
Juancho:
It's the whole package actually, what you lack in size aspect can be compensated.
March 22, 2009
Nate:
Three things: If a girl only likes huge cocks (i.e. above 7.5 inches), chances are she's a slutty whore who will probably later find that it feels impossible for her to ever actually love anyone.
All of you dudes under 16: Quit freaking out about your dick size. It doesn't reach its full size until you're completely finished with puberty. Until then, don't worry yourself much about it. Average size is from 5-7 inches erect. And the size of your flaccid penis has absolutely no bearing upon how big it'll be when you've got a boner.
I suggest everyone scroll down to a comment made by someone named Linda. I found it very insightful and I agree with it. Those bastards!
Find a girl that likes you, not dicks.
My cock is a little mover 5 inches in girth, and anywhere from 6 to 7 inches long. Exactly 1.75 inches wide. I'm 18.
March 17, 2009
Babe200947:
Hi ! I am a 22 year old female virgin (no kidding) and I was very interested in this page because I am wondering what my first time would be like. My boyfriend is a full 9 1/2 inches (measured the right way), erect, and I am only 5 feet two inches. In my case I really do think size matters! My wedding and honeymoon have already been planned, and honestly I would prefer if he was half that size.
March 16, 2009
MeThomas:
It does matter. I am a 34 year-old wife and mother of three. My current husband is 49 and is medium-to-small. Not very satisfying. My first husband, however, is medium-to-large. I sure miss that!
March 16, 2009
I1KoRn11:
I think it's how deep you fish cuz girls love that feeling of a long penis rubbing the sides of their entire vagina. People with small penises are self-conscious and say it's not the size of the penis but you know what it really is the size that matters.
March 16, 2009
HornBerg:
I am 6'0 155lbs and 19 years old. I have roughly a 6 inch penis and 5 around. I am constantly measuring with a ruler and looking at pictures and studies on internet. From what I have read and heard - the average penis size is 6 inches and if you have a dick between 5 and 8 inches - you are fine - unless you fuck a nympho slut who only wants a cock 7 inches or bigger.
March 15, 2009
John:
My dick is so long that I have to wear it around my waist. When I want to have sex with a girl it sometimes gets embarrassing because she gets bored waiting for me to untie my dick from my waist. I would be grateful if anyone with the same problem could email me back.
March 14, 2009
Donna G:
I think it matters to some girls, but more like the average size I think because why else would smaller guys get some. It's only logical. Mine is 7.25" long and I'm 17 do you think it will grow bigger?
P.S. Girls who only like big guys are superficial and need to try out a average guy or smaller if they want a guy who will really give them the time of their lives.
March 14, 2009
KyleMurp:
It is how deep you fish.
March 14, 2009
Sarah H:
It is definately how deep you fish. A girl likes a little pain with her pleasure from time to time, and let's face it, we need to have a man with some length!!
March 14, 2009
Unknown:
I was born with an extremely small penis. So much so the ultrasound thought I was female. This really bothers me because my friend's are all large. I know I can never satisfy a woman, ever. I can relate to what Mike D was saying in his comments. I too have been a victim of small penis syndrome. I too have been set aside for a guy with a larger penis. I can't even tell a girl to rub my testicles because they're almost non existant. I feel what you feel, Mike D, and I sympathise with you. We, with small penises must overcome this biggetry now. I say we make a stand, well poor choice of words, but speak for our rights. Thank you all for listening.
March 14, 2009
:
I'm 14. My penis gets to about 6 inches erect. How much will it grow to when I'm older. Also do you have any methods to help me cum while masturbating its real important.
March 13, 2009
Kelly:
I am 24 years old and have been with over 20 men. All in all, to me, size really doesn't matter. If a man has a small dick, I prefer for him to be good with his mouth. On the same token, if a man is large, then I prefer for him to be good with his mouth!
In reference to penis size, I DON'T WANT a man who is longer than 7.25 in. long. Why? Doggy style or other deeper-penetration positions are too painful to enjoy for me. I prefer a man who is thick around. Always.
March 13, 2009
Nancy:
I was surfing around and found this page. I'd like to comment on my husband's cock. We have measured it and found that flaccid he is 6 1/2" X 5 3/4" in girth; erect he is 9 1/2" X 7" --- in the latter case, his dickhead is large.
Contrary to the commonly held view, a woman's cunt can take this easily --- after all, babies come out of that hole! My cunt and asshole both can take hime to the hilt; I cannot take all of him orally, however.
March 13, 2009
USNMH:
I am 21 years old, 5'9" tall. My penis is 3 inches soft, and 5.5-6.0 inches when erect. I am quite happy with my size, even if it isn't that big.
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